tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29867661.post1338411633907420094..comments2023-10-27T23:44:12.947-07:00Comments on Love from the Asexual Underground: #15- Confessions of an Asexual Slut Part 3: Doin' ItDJ DJhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12425252337370070561noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29867661.post-80748342001054391092007-01-29T09:33:00.000-08:002007-01-29T09:33:00.000-08:00Dude, that's so hot ;P Seriously, even though I'v...Dude, that's so hot ;P Seriously, even though I've figured out my identity as a sexual, I'm still into having close relationships outside of a sexual framework -- the kind where you can share secrets, experiences and even your best tea or port (yum!), without any thoughts crossing your mind about the boundary between "mine" and "yours." <br /><br />What's interesting now is exploring the differences between what's OK for me and what's OK for my spouse. She wants those kinds of close friendships too, and it's fascinating to talk with her about those ideas and how we might realize them as we get more settled in life (we're planning to move out of the area once I graduate).<br /><br />I'm so happy now that I can "share the love" with my spouse -- every time I make a new friend, I can bring that person into our circle, and open the opportunity for two new friendships to come about.HilbertAstronauthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11443786031975040593noreply@blogger.com