tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29867661.post3751788999314050867..comments2023-10-27T23:44:12.947-07:00Comments on Love from the Asexual Underground: The Magic Words Part 3: Using the 3 T'sDJ DJhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12425252337370070561noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29867661.post-1732962021629468152008-12-21T22:00:00.000-08:002008-12-21T22:00:00.000-08:00I think I've kind of unconsciously been doing this...I think I've kind of unconsciously been doing this already, kind of jumping off when at the Drew University presentation you suggested that it was easier to get close to a couple than to individuals by themselves. That is how I got to know two of the wonderful men in my life this previous semester, one of whom I've already told you about.<BR/><BR/>I look forward to hearing about the magical world of community organizing. :)Hezaahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13460490508576917629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29867661.post-74671148072980145502008-12-14T19:22:00.000-08:002008-12-14T19:22:00.000-08:00I wanna know about the magical world of community ...I wanna know about the magical world of community organizing!Ilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12795337226989102549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29867661.post-58897393268651233172008-11-29T08:11:00.000-08:002008-11-29T08:11:00.000-08:00Pretty sweet. The 3 T's is a pretty interesti...Pretty sweet. The 3 T's is a pretty interesting way of talking about all of this. Definitely makes sense.<BR/><BR/>I especially appreciated you talking about gradually building up relationships - that it's kind of an organic process. That's how all of my relationships work. They start off kind of slowly, & if I'm interested, I can start trying to introduce new things to that relationship. If reciprocated, that's how I build a more intimate relationship. It makes a lot more sense to me than the idea of being attracted to someone, asking someone to go out w/ you, & then introducing a whole bunch of emotions & affection & such into a relatively new relationship.<BR/><BR/>And have I commented at all on your recent blog posts? I'm not sure if I have. Either way, I totally support the idea of using <BR/>"relationship" rather than "boyfriend," "girlfriend," & "friend." Sometimes it can get a little tricky when talking to people b/c we're so used to saying "my this" & "my that." But it's also a lot more helpful to me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29867661.post-14610539972780575632008-11-15T20:34:00.000-08:002008-11-15T20:34:00.000-08:00Another blog to stretch the brain! I'm not--yet--...Another blog to stretch the brain! I'm not--yet--willing to say that you're on to something, but I do value the thought that you put into these posts, DJ!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29867661.post-53060508090933665962008-11-02T22:28:00.000-08:002008-11-02T22:28:00.000-08:00Thought-provoking as usual! I'm pondering all thi...Thought-provoking as usual! I'm pondering all this...Ilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12795337226989102549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29867661.post-67072386727905272412008-11-02T07:03:00.000-08:002008-11-02T07:03:00.000-08:00I'd also love to be able to read Kristin's article...I'd also love to be able to read Kristin's article.Adamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04697124902504188110noreply@blogger.com