Love from the Asexual Underground

It's taken me a long time to write about community. A lot of the blame rests on the usual whirlwind of grad school and life, but this is...

t-square = love Originally uploaded by mynameis shoe Oof, too much traveling and midterms have gotten me way behind on posts! So much has h...

'T' Originally uploaded by doozzle Last week I talked about the importance of clearing the slate, of throwing out the words "f...

Last week I talked about how the relationship problems facing asexual people aren't all that bad, because we can use language to solve t...

Last post I left you hanging. I went through what probably seemed like an incredibly depressing  breakdown of all of the reasons why asexual...

Thanks for all of the great comments on my last post! I definitely agree that we need more asexual literature, and gathering narratives are ...

Wow, has it really been a month since my last post? I just had a cool discussion with a researcher from down the bay, and we go into an inte...

So I got an email from someone today who had some awesome comments about this blog and podcast. She was talking about the episode on having...

Listen here. As promised, here is the second installment of the interview with Carol Queen. Enjoy!

Listen . I got to interview Carol Queen, an icon in the sex positive world. She had some very interesting, very positive things to say about...

Asexualest. Robot. Ever. Even though Wall-E's hopelessly romantic and I'm hopelessly not, I was way way into the relationships in th...

I just listened to an excellent episode of Polyamory Weekly about hitting on people . The show gives some good philosophy and methodology fo...

At my housemate's insistance I rolled out to Sexicon , which was this kink art show at a leather store in SOMA (South of Market, an SF n...

Oh man. So I roll up to 1325 Mass Ave, which happens to house not only the National Center for Transgender Equality but also the National Ga...

As I mentioned last episode the good folks at Google Reader and Asexy Beast (or should I say, Asexy Best! ) have been inspiring to get mo...

A pretty awesome interview with KL Pereira, the reporter for Bitch magazine who recently wrote an article on asexuality. We discuss everyt...

Sorry folks, this link to Episode 19 should work now...

A new episode finally! I'm trying to wrap my head around the ways that relationships are not only a way to feel good but a way to make t...

Thanks to the good folks at Skype and PrettyMay I can now do interviews ! This gives me an excuse to have long conversations with cool peo...

This episode I'm going to talk about a crush, Ira Glass style. Give it a listen .