Love from the Asexual Underground

I'm on vacation, which means I get to spend some quality time nerding out with my brother. We just used a big chunk of beach as a chalkb...

I made an incredibly cheesy video about this year's AVEN Pride contingent. Check it out:

I'm playing with video again! If you like it, please digg it . Thanks!!

There's nothing sexy about starting a band. Talking about starting a band is sexy. Playing in a band, once everything is said and done, ...

I've been nerding out on the history and philosophy of nonviolence . Sparked (kinda) by Mahatma Ghandi and brought to the US by Dr. Kin...

Relationships are everywhere. We have relationships with our friends and our family. When we go to the store we rely on a relationship with ...

How is being a leader like falling in love? Something seems profane about that question. Leadership is about a sacred form of responsibility...

Allright all you aspiring hollywood writers out there. Ily's recent post on queer cupids has propmted me to brainstorm some ideas for a...

Over the past several months I've had a running series of posts on issues facing the asexual community in general and on asexual relatio...

Whattt ?????? Ok , quick rant about the above-linked article in the New York Times, which is titled "Anti-Love Drug May Be Ticket to Bl...

The first time I broke up with someone was in high school. Her name was Rachel, and in proper highschool style I had no idea what the fuck I...

It's taken me a long time to write about community. A lot of the blame rests on the usual whirlwind of grad school and life, but this is...

t-square = love Originally uploaded by mynameis shoe Oof, too much traveling and midterms have gotten me way behind on posts! So much has h...

'T' Originally uploaded by doozzle Last week I talked about the importance of clearing the slate, of throwing out the words "f...