Love from the Asexual Underground

I've been officially recruited as a vlogger on the phenominal Hot Pieces of Ace . Hopefully this will finally get me off my butt and gen...

Let’s face it: as Aces, conversation is what we’ve got. Cuddling is all well and good, but when it comes to creating close relationships wit...

I'm graduated!! And will hopefully have some time to give love to this blog (in addition to my other one .) I want to start with a respo...

I think I've broken the ice. I've been ranting about intimacy for a while now, despite the fact that it's pretty embarrassing, s...

I'm on winter break, and am trying to get back into blogging. This past semester has been fantastic, both in terms of my connection with...

Still busy with grad school, but I'm coming up with tangentially relevant stuff from time to time:

I'm on vacation, which means I get to spend some quality time nerding out with my brother. We just used a big chunk of beach as a chalkb...

I made an incredibly cheesy video about this year's AVEN Pride contingent. Check it out:

I'm playing with video again! If you like it, please digg it . Thanks!!

There's nothing sexy about starting a band. Talking about starting a band is sexy. Playing in a band, once everything is said and done, ...

I've been nerding out on the history and philosophy of nonviolence . Sparked (kinda) by Mahatma Ghandi and brought to the US by Dr. Kin...

Relationships are everywhere. We have relationships with our friends and our family. When we go to the store we rely on a relationship with ...

How is being a leader like falling in love? Something seems profane about that question. Leadership is about a sacred form of responsibility...

Allright all you aspiring hollywood writers out there. Ily's recent post on queer cupids has propmted me to brainstorm some ideas for a...

Over the past several months I've had a running series of posts on issues facing the asexual community in general and on asexual relatio...

Whattt ?????? Ok , quick rant about the above-linked article in the New York Times, which is titled "Anti-Love Drug May Be Ticket to Bl...

The first time I broke up with someone was in high school. Her name was Rachel, and in proper highschool style I had no idea what the fuck I...

It's taken me a long time to write about community. A lot of the blame rests on the usual whirlwind of grad school and life, but this is...